So you want to be married to the love of your life with enough money left over to treat yourself to a luxury weekend away. 

Sounds like a better plan than spending a house deposit on the one day right?

It's time to explore the world of Micro, Small and Elopement weddings. Since the world restarted a couple of years ago, there has been a huge influx of these words…

But wait, what's the deal with micro weddings, small weddings, and elopements? Are they just fancy names for the same thing, or is there more to it? Fear not, for we are going to hold hands and walk through this mine field of dictionary meanings together!

Elopements: Sneaking Away in Style

Elopements are the rebels of the wedding world. Traditionally speaking it was to run away without parents' consent.

However these days it is less about the consent and more about it being hassle-free.

Elopements are for the couples who want to run away and be united without the fuss or the family drama. It's the kind of thing you'd find in a romance novel, where you run off to a faraway place and declare your un-ending love for each other.

Then tell everyone about it when you arrive home!

Pros:

• No seating charts or awkward family reunions.
• Only about 2 months notice needed (for legal reasons, Notice of Intended Marriage is required)
• Elopement photos have that magical "we did it our way" vibe.

Cons:

• Relatives might be slightly miffed when they find out you're married.
• Limited guest list – it's just you, your love, and 2 witnesses!

Small Weddings: A well-curated playlist

Imagine your favourite cosy corner in your most loved coffee shop, that's what small weddings are like; They're intimate, heart-warming, and full of love.

Now picture your closest friends and family gathered to celebrate your special day without the overwhelming chaos of a massive guest list. Small weddings are like a well-curated playlist – all killer, no filler.

Pros:

• Quality over quantity – spend quality time with the people who matter most.
• Budget-friendly 
• You can splurge on the things that truly matter, like amazing accommodation.

Cons:

• Second cousin Sally might be upset she didn't make the cut.
• Still some planning involved – but way less than a grand extravaganza.

Micro Weddings: Tiny Weddings with Mega Charm

Micro weddings are like a tiny treasure chest full of love. They're half way between eloping and a small wedding. Micro weddings are for those who want to keep things intimate while still adding some wedding glamour. 

Pros:

• Extremely personalised – you can be as over the top as you want with a small guest list.
• More budget flexibility – you can have additional time for the photographer!
• Your wedding is a guaranteed VIP experience for every guest.

Cons:

• Very exclusive – not everyone will make the cut.

In the world of weddings, there's no one-size-fits-all approach. Whether you're taking a holiday to elope, enjoying an intimate small wedding or creating a micro masterpiece, the key is to do what feels right for you and your partner. After all, it's your love story and you're the authors of your happily ever after.

So, whether you're saying "I do" with just the two of you, a handful of loved ones or a tiny tribe, remember that love is the star of the show.

Also, on a final note: if you want a laugh along the way, don't forget to hire a person with a great sense of humour as your officiant. After all, who says weddings can't be as funny as they are heart-warming? Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after!